FLOCK FRIDAY
Happy Friday, folks!
This week, I want to talk about why you should stop trying to get better at things you're bad at.
We've been taught that success means becoming well-rounded. That you should work on your weaknesses. That if you're bad at something important, you need to improve until you're good at it.
But that's terrible advice for entrepreneurs. You don't have time to spend years getting mediocre at things you'll never be great at. And you don't need to be good at everything. You just need those things to get done.
So stop trying to improve your weaknesses. Automate them instead.
Let's dive in.
The Skill I'll Never Have
I'm terrible at administrative work. Always have been. Details. Organization. Following up consistently. Keeping things filed properly.
For years, I tried to fix this. Read books about organization. Used apps. Made systems. Tried to be the kind of person who stays on top of admin work.
It never stuck. I'd be good for a week, then everything would fall apart again. I'd forget follow-ups. Lose track of details. Let things pile up.
So I kept trying harder. Because that's what you're supposed to do with weaknesses, right? Work on them until you improve.
Then I had a different thought: what if I just stopped doing admin work entirely?
I hired a part-time assistant. Gave them all the administrative tasks I was terrible at. Follow-ups. Scheduling. File organization. Data entry.
Cost me $10/hour. Saved me 10 hours per week of work I was bad at and hated doing.
My admin work got better overnight. Not because I improved, but because I stopped doing it.
The Well-Rounded Myth
We're sold this idea that successful people are good at everything. That they've overcome their weaknesses through hard work and discipline.
It's not true.
Successful people aren't well-rounded
They're extremely good at a few things and have systems to handle everything else. They doubled down on strengths and automated weaknesses.
Working on weaknesses is low ROI
If you're naturally bad at something, you can spend 100 hours and maybe get to mediocre. Those same 100 hours improving what you're already good at? You go from good to exceptional.
Which investment makes more sense?
Weaknesses drain your energy
Forcing yourself to do things you're bad at is exhausting. It takes way more energy than doing what comes naturally. That energy could be spent on high-value work instead.
You'll never be great at your weaknesses
At best, you'll be competent. Meanwhile, someone else is naturally good at that thing. Why compete with their strength using your weakness?
Time is your constraint
You could spend five years getting decent at your weaknesses. Or you could spend five years becoming world-class at your strengths while automating the rest.
One path builds a valuable business. The other makes you mediocre at everything.
What to Automate Instead of Improve
Here are the common weaknesses entrepreneurs try to fix that they should just automate:
Consistency
You're not disciplined about posting, following up, or maintaining habits. Instead of trying to become disciplined, build systems that force consistency.
Scheduled posts. Automated reminders. Software that does the recurring task automatically.
Detail work
You're not detail-oriented. You miss things. Make mistakes on paperwork. Hate proofreading.
Stop trying to become detail-oriented. Hire someone who is. Or use tools that catch errors automatically.
Administrative tasks
Scheduling. Data entry. File organization. Invoice tracking. You're bad at all of it.
Don't waste years trying to get better. Pay someone $15/hour to handle it all.
Follow-up
You mean to follow up. You even put it on your to-do list. But you forget or put it off.
Automate it. Email sequences. CRM reminders. Systems that follow up for you without requiring discipline.
Accounting and finances
Numbers confuse you. Bookkeeping feels impossible. Taxes stress you out.
Hire a bookkeeper. Use software. Stop pretending you'll suddenly become good with numbers.
Technical implementation
You're not technical. Setting up tools is painful. Troubleshooting breaks your brain.
Hire someone on Upwork for $30/hour. They'll do in 30 minutes what would take you 6 hours of frustration.
The Automation Mindset
Instead of asking "how do I get better at this?" ask "how do I make this happen without me?"
Hire it out
Virtual assistants. Freelancers. Contractors. Agencies. Pay people who are naturally good at your weaknesses.
Use software
There's a tool for everything now. Project management. Scheduling. Follow-up. Bookkeeping. Social media. Email marketing.
Stop doing manually what software can do automatically.
Build templates and checklists
If you have to do it yourself, make it systematic. Templates ensure consistency. Checklists prevent errors.
You're not relying on remembering or discipline. You're following a system.
Create forcing functions
Set up systems that make the thing happen whether you remember or not. Automatic payments. Scheduled posts. Recurring calendar blocks.
Take your weakness out of the equation entirely.
Delegate to partners or team
Someone on your team is probably naturally good at your weakness. Give it to them. Let them own it.
The Math That Makes This Obvious
Let me show you why improving weaknesses is bad business:
Trying to improve a weakness:
100 hours of effort to go from bad to mediocre
Still not good at it, just less bad
Drains energy that could go to strengths
Mediocre outcome at best
Automating a weakness:
$500-2,000 one-time setup (hire someone or buy software)
Instant competence (someone good is doing it)
Frees up 100+ hours for high-value work
Excellent outcome from day one
If your time is worth $100/hour, spending 100 hours to get mediocre at something costs you $10,000 in opportunity cost.
Paying $1,000 to automate it saves you $9,000 and gives you a better result.
The math is obvious. But most people still try to improve their weaknesses because it feels like the "right" thing to do.
When You Actually Should Improve
I'm not saying never learn new skills. I'm saying be strategic about it.
Improve strengths, not weaknesses
If you're already good at something and it's high-value, get even better. That's worth the time investment.
Going from good to great at your strength creates exponential returns. Going from bad to mediocre at your weakness creates linear improvement at best.
Learn strategic skills
Some skills are force multipliers. Sales. Communication. Strategic thinking. Leadership.
These are worth investing in even if you're not naturally gifted, because they amplify everything else.
Develop capabilities that increase your value
If learning a new skill meaningfully increases what you can charge or the value you provide, it might be worth it.
But be honest: is learning bookkeeping going to increase your value? Or is hiring a bookkeeper going to free you up to do what actually makes you valuable?
What This Actually Looks Like
Before (trying to improve weaknesses):
Spending 2 hours/day on admin work you're bad at
Forcing yourself to follow up (and often forgetting)
Doing your own bookkeeping poorly
Manually posting on social media
Stressing about details you keep missing
Result: Mediocre outcomes, exhausted, no time for high-value work
After (automating weaknesses):
VA handles all admin work ($20/hour, 10 hours/week = $200/week)
CRM automatically sends follow-up emails
Bookkeeper handles finances ($200/month)
Buffer schedules all social posts automatically
Checklists catch details you'd otherwise miss
Result: Excellent outcomes, energy for strengths, 15+ hours/week freed up
Cost: ~$1,200/month Value: Your time back, better results, reduced stress, focus on $500/hour work instead of $20/hour work.
How to Start Automating
If you're ready to stop fighting your weaknesses, here's the process:
List your weaknesses
What are you consistently bad at? What do you avoid? What drains your energy? What takes you forever that others do easily?
Be honest. This isn't about shame. It's about strategy.
Calculate the cost
How much time do these weaknesses consume? What's your time worth? What's the opportunity cost of not doing high-value work instead?
Make the cost visible. $100/hour × 10 hours/week = $1,000/week you're wasting on weaknesses.
Find the automation solution
For each weakness, research: What software handles this? Who could I hire to do this? What system would make this automatic?
Start with the biggest drain
You can't automate everything at once. Pick the one weakness that consumes the most time or energy.
Automate that first. Then move to the next one.
Track the ROI
How much time did you get back? How much better is the outcome? How much more valuable work can you do now?
This reinforces that automation is an investment, not a cost.
The Permission You Need
You have permission to be bad at things. You don't need to be good at everything.
You're an entrepreneur, not a Swiss Army knife. You don't need to have every capability. You just need to make sure every capability is covered.
Some will be covered by you doing what you're great at. The rest will be covered by systems, people, and tools.
Stop trying to become someone you're not. Build a business that works with who you are.
Your weaknesses aren't problems to fix through years of self-improvement. They're opportunities to build systems that work better than you ever could.
Your Move
Pick one weakness that's been draining your time and energy.
This week, find a way to automate it. Hire someone. Buy software. Create a system. Delegate it.
Stop trying to get better at it. Just make it happen without you.
Then use the time and energy you get back to do more of what you're actually good at.
Your business doesn't need you to be well-rounded. It needs you to be exceptional at your strengths and smart enough to automate everything else.
Until next Friday,
Mustafiz
Creator, Flock Friday

